hope for the hopeless.
After months of Achi not opening up, she finally did today. It's always hard seeing her cry and i can't do something about it. I just listened to her and try my best to understand the situation but it all comes down to the same old drama that keeps her the prisoner who can't get away.
I know that probably, I'm just saying this because i was not in her shoes, that maybe, I say this because i moved on and i'm okay now. But maybe, I'm saying this because i wanted her to free herself and wake her up that there's more into life than being with someone who never treats her right. Siguro nga, minahal siya nun, pero kulang na kulang to stand up for it. The guy may have reasons and problems that we do not understand, pero sana, hindi niya ginagawang reason yun to hang the girl in thin air and saying "just be there"? It's not love, it's selfishness.
Hindi titigil ang mundo para sa kanya dahil sa may problema siya, hindi din lahat ng tao maiintindihan kung anu pinagdadaanan niya pero hindi yun dahilan para gawing miserable din ang buhay ng iba dahil hindi niya maayos ang sa kanya. If he's man enough, he'd fix himself first then come back pag maayos na, hindi yung paghihintayin niya yung tao ng walang kasiguraduhan. Kasi, kahit sino tanungin mo, lahat naman nagsasabing maghihintay sila, pero napapagod din sa huli. Wala naman talagang naghintay na di napapagod o nagigising sa katotohanang wala na pala silang hinihintay.
If he really loves my sister, he would let her FULLY go so she could be MORE happy.
As to my sister, as long as there's life, there's hope. Sana hindi niya isiping hindi niya kaya magbago, kasi i know that she can, she just keeps resisting and tormenting herself. Sabi ko nga before to a friend, we're given a chance everyday to turn things around and im saying it again for achi. We're given almost everyday of our life to create possibilities and choices, what we need to do is use it. There is always hope, let's not take that away from ourselves because even if we seem hopeless, god provides us with more.
I know that probably, I'm just saying this because i was not in her shoes, that maybe, I say this because i moved on and i'm okay now. But maybe, I'm saying this because i wanted her to free herself and wake her up that there's more into life than being with someone who never treats her right. Siguro nga, minahal siya nun, pero kulang na kulang to stand up for it. The guy may have reasons and problems that we do not understand, pero sana, hindi niya ginagawang reason yun to hang the girl in thin air and saying "just be there"? It's not love, it's selfishness.
Hindi titigil ang mundo para sa kanya dahil sa may problema siya, hindi din lahat ng tao maiintindihan kung anu pinagdadaanan niya pero hindi yun dahilan para gawing miserable din ang buhay ng iba dahil hindi niya maayos ang sa kanya. If he's man enough, he'd fix himself first then come back pag maayos na, hindi yung paghihintayin niya yung tao ng walang kasiguraduhan. Kasi, kahit sino tanungin mo, lahat naman nagsasabing maghihintay sila, pero napapagod din sa huli. Wala naman talagang naghintay na di napapagod o nagigising sa katotohanang wala na pala silang hinihintay.
If he really loves my sister, he would let her FULLY go so she could be MORE happy.
As to my sister, as long as there's life, there's hope. Sana hindi niya isiping hindi niya kaya magbago, kasi i know that she can, she just keeps resisting and tormenting herself. Sabi ko nga before to a friend, we're given a chance everyday to turn things around and im saying it again for achi. We're given almost everyday of our life to create possibilities and choices, what we need to do is use it. There is always hope, let's not take that away from ourselves because even if we seem hopeless, god provides us with more.
posted by insidemyuniverse at
7/31/2010 06:42:00 PM
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